Social Issues

Eid-ul-Adha is one of the most sacred times of the year for Muslims a festival rooted in devotion, sacrifice, and generosity. Families come together, prayers echo through the streets, and animals are offered as part of a centuries-old tradition.

But in Karachi, once the animals are sacrificed and the meat distributed, another, far more unpleasant ritual begins. It’s not spiritual. It’s not holy. It’s a complete breakdown of sanitation and public health. Blood-streaked roads, piles of rotting offal, and a stench that clings to the air for days that’s the reality many Karachiites live with after Eid.

“We’ve cleaned the streets ourselves. The authorities showed up four days later. Too little, too late.” — Resident, North Nazimabad

Streets Turn Into Slaughterhouses

Every year, thousands of animals are sacrificed across Karachi, from Gulshan to Korangi, Orangi to Defence. But the infrastructure to manage the aftermath simply doesn’t exist. In working-class areas like Liaquatabad, Lyari, and Saddar, animal waste is left in the open: intestines dumped in back alleys, hides clogging drains, and blood running through streets like water.

The city claims it collects over 100,000 tonnes of waste post-Eid. But if you walk down most streets during those days, the claim feels like a joke.

“The smell is unbearable. We’ve been using vinegar and charcoal, but nothing works. The drains are overflowing with blood and gunk.” — Resident, Gulistan-e-Jauhar

In low-income neighborhoods, the garbage stays for days sometimes a full week attracting flies, stray dogs, and rodents. The heat only makes it worse, accelerating decomposition and increasing the risk of disease.

From Sacrifice to Sickness: A Public Health Time Bomb

This isn’t just about discomfort or bad smells. Karachi’s post-Eid environment is a serious health hazard. Doctors and public health experts report a sharp rise in infections every year following the holiday. These include:

• Gastroenteritis and diarrhea from contaminated water
• Skin infections caused by contact with rotting waste
• Respiratory issues due to fumes from decomposing animal matter
• Mosquito-borne diseases like dengue and malaria, especially where blood pools in stagnant water

Open sewers overflow. Blood and animal fat clog street drains. And the people most at risk children, the elderly, and those with weak immune systems are often the least protected.

Who’s to Blame? The Institutions That Don’t Deliver

The responsibility for post-Eid cleanup officially lies with two main bodies: the Karachi Metropolitan Corporation (KMC) and the Sindh Solid Waste Management Board (SSWMB). In theory, both work together to manage waste. In reality, both often pass the buck while citizens suffer.

🚛 Sindh Solid Waste Management Board (SSWMB)

SSWMB typically outsources the cleanup operation to international contractors. They’re supposed to supply:

• Dump trucks and loaders
• Waste collection staff
• Special Eid collection points

But every year, residents report the same problems: bins are missing, vehicles break down, and workers show up late if they show up at all.

🏢 Karachi Metropolitan Corporation (KMC)

KMC is meant to coordinate the broader effort, but its problems are structural. The organization is underfunded and overstretched. According to insiders:

• Almost half of KMC’s sanitation fleet is broken or non-operational
• Many sweepers haven’t been paid in months, leading to walkouts
• There’s no coordination with the 25 different Town Municipal Corporations (TMCs), which operate like mini-governments with their own rules

This fragmented system means no one’s really in charge especially during a crisis.

Lip Service and Press Conferences

Ahead of every Eid, officials promise the same things. This year, Mayor Murtaza Wahab claimed:

• Over 10,000 sanitation workers would be deployed
• 99 official animal waste collection points were being set up
• Chlorine spray and rose water would be used for odor control

But when journalists and activists visited various sites, many of these collection points were inactive or completely missing. In some areas, waste was still lying in the streets 72 hours after Eid.

It’s not that there’s no plan it’s that the plan isn’t executed. And no one’s held accountable when it fails.

The People Step Up — Again

Tired of waiting, many citizens have taken matters into their own hands. In some neighborhoods:

• Families hire private sweepers
• Communities rent water tankers to wash down roads
• Activists distribute lime powder and disinfectants
• Volunteers organize cleanup brigades on WhatsApp

Social media users are also doing the work that officials won’t filming waste piles, tagging government handles, and shaming contractors into action. But this grassroots effort while inspiring is also a symptom of how broken the system is. People shouldn’t have to clean up what they pay taxes for.

The Ragpicker Problem — and the Law That’s Ignored

One major but often overlooked contributor to the chaos is the rise of ragpickers informal waste collectors who dig through piles of animal remains to extract hides, bones, and sellable parts. This often makes an already messy situation worse.

The government technically banned this under Section 144, but enforcement is spotty. In 2024, 96 ragpickers were arrested, but many were back on the streets within hours. Without real enforcement and safe alternatives for these informal workers, the problem continues.

So What Needs to Change?

Karachi doesn’t need another press release it needs a real solution. Experts and civic groups recommend several urgent reforms:

1. Create a Single Eid Sanitation Authority – Empower one team with full control, budget, and accountability

2. Make Sanitation Data Public – Use live dashboards to track which areas are cleaned and which aren’t

3. Pay Sanitation Staff On Time – If you want a clean city, pay the people doing the cleaning

4. Fix What You Already Have – Repair existing vehicles and equipment instead of renting more

5. Work With Communities, Not Against Them – Involve mosques, schools, and local volunteers in awareness drives

6. Enforce Laws — Properly – Don’t just announce bans — enforce them with support from police and Rangers if needed

Final Word: Spiritual Cleanliness Needs Civic Cleanliness

Eid-ul-Adha is about sacrifice, unity, and submission to divine will. But the post-Eid environment in Karachi sends a very different message one of dysfunction, neglect, and inequality. As this report from Nisfeman Journal shows, civic responsibility is not just a matter of policy it’s a matter of dignity. Karachi deserves to celebrate its most sacred days with both spiritual and environmental purity.

The World Economic Forum (WEF) just dropped its Global Gender Gap Report 2025, and for Pakistan, the news couldn’t be worse. Ranked 148 out of 148 countries, Pakistan has officially been labelled the worst place in the world to be a woman. With a gender parity score of just 56.7%, the ranking has sparked outrage, frustration, and heartbreak across the country.

Breaking Down Pakistan’s Gender Crisis

The WEF ranks countries based on four key pillars: economic participation and opportunity, educational attainment, health and survival, and political empowerment. Unfortunately, Pakistan has shown major weaknesses in all of these areas.

• Women still earn 25% less than men for the same work.
• Over 90% of women have experienced domestic violence during their lifetime.
• Toxic portrayals of relationships in TV shows continue to normalize abuse.
• Horrifying cases like the murder of a 17-year-old girl for refusing a proposal show how dangerous it still is to be a woman in Pakistan.

These aren’t just numbers they reflect daily realities that millions of Pakistani women face.

Social Media Reactions: Anger, Grief, and a Call for Change

As soon as the report was released, Pakistani Twitter (X) exploded with strong reactions. Many activists, journalists, and ordinary citizens shared their anger and heartbreak over the ranking.

Nida Kirmani tweeted: “Pakistan has now fallen to last place… officially the worst place to be a woman in the entire world.”

Journalist Muneeb Qadir didn’t hold back either, pointing out: “This is what happens when you morally police women, give impunity to perpetrators of honor killings, prevent Anti-Domestic Violence and Anti-Forced Conversion Bills from becoming laws, and enable child marriages.”

Syeda Nayab Bukhari called it “deeply alarming,” stressing that women make up nearly half of the population but face growing structural oppression. She urged international donors and policymakers to step up and ensure that women also benefit from any economic support provided to Pakistan.

Political Voices Speak Up

Even some political leaders have acknowledged the gravity of the situation. Mehnaz Akber Aziz, Member of National Assembly, tweeted: “Our heads hang in shame as Pakistan ranks 148th out of 148 countries… It’s truly an emergency.”

Wazma Khan Nasar added that this isn’t an accident but a result of years of systemic patriarchy: “Pakistan didn’t just fall behind, it was dragged here by decades of deliberate patriarchy and political cowardice.”

Why This Ranking Is a National Emergency?

This is not just a women’s issue it’s a national crisis. When half of the population is denied basic rights, education, healthcare, and financial independence, the entire country suffers. Economic growth slows, global reputation declines, and generational trauma continues.

The WEF report should not just be another statistic that fades with the news cycle. It is a red flag demanding urgent and serious action. Without bold reforms, from legal protections to societal shifts, Pakistan risks staying trapped at the bottom.

As highlighted in the 2020 report, Pakistan has long struggled with deep-rooted cultural and institutional barriers that make gender equality an uphill battle.

Read More: Why does Pakistan Still Rank Amongst the Lowest on the Global Gender Gap Index 2020?

What Needs to Change?

The road to change is long, but not impossible. Legal reforms must criminalize domestic violence, forced conversions, child marriages, and honor killings. Education needs to be made accessible and safe for girls. Economic opportunities must be created so women can work without fear. Media portrayals should promote healthy relationships and respect for women.

Above all, there needs to be a shift in mindset one that no longer views women as second-class citizens but as equals.

The Road Ahead

The WEF’s Gender Gap Report 2025 should serve as a massive wake-up call for Pakistan. Real change requires political will, legal reforms, societal mindset shifts, and a collective effort from every segment of society. If these systemic issues aren’t addressed, Pakistan risks not only its global standing but also the wellbeing of nearly half its population.

One thing is clear: the world is watching, and so are Pakistan’s women tired of apologies, tired of waiting, and ready for action.

In Pakistan, if you listen carefully to conversations around you, you’ll notice something strange women are constantly saying “sorry.” “Sorry I’m late.” “Sorry I can’t cook today.” “Sorry I got promoted.” It’s like breathing – automatic and unnoticed. But why? When did simply existing as a woman become something that requires constant apology?

The Heavy Weight of “Sorry”

From childhood, Pakistani girls are trained in the art of apology. A brother makes a mess? “Beti, tum saaf kar do.”. A guest arrives unexpectedly? “Beta, tum chai bana do.” The unspoken rule is clear: women must keep everything running smoothly, and if anything goes wrong, it’s automatically their fault.

This conditioning follows us into adulthood. At work, women apologize before speaking in meetings “Sorry, just one quick point…”. At home, they apologize for being tired after a long day “Sorry, dinner is simple today”. Even when celebrating achievements, there’s always a “but” – “I got the job, but I’ll still handle all the housework!”

The Impossible Standards We Face

Pakistani society has created an impossible checklist for women:

• Be highly educated but don’t let it “ruin” your family life
• Have a successful career but always be available at home
• Be modern but not “too Western”
• Be ambitious but not “difficult”

A man working late is “Mashallah, kitna mehnati hai.” A woman working late? “Iska ghar kaun sambhalta hai?” 

This double standard follows women through every stage of life. Young girls are told “Padh lo, par zyada ho mat jana.” Married women hear “Job to theek hai, lekin bachay kaun palay ga?” Even elderly women apologize for “bothering” their children with their needs.

Breaking Down the Apology Habit

Let’s examine some common unnecessary apologies:

1. Apologizing for Success

When a man gets promoted, it’s celebration time. When a woman does, the first reaction is often “Tum itna kaam karogi to ghar kaise chalega?” This forces women to downplay their achievements or – worse – feel guilty about them.

2. Apologizing for Taking Space

Watch women in public spaces. They squeeze themselves into small areas, constantly adjusting to make room for others. “Sorry, can I just…” as they try to exist comfortably. Men rarely do this – they naturally occupy space without apology.

3. Apologizing for Basic Needs

• “Sorry, I need to eat.”

• “Sorry, I’m tired.”
• “Sorry, I can’t do that favor right now.”

Since when did basic human needs become things to apologize for?

The Ripple Effect of Constant Apologizing

This habit does more damage than we realize:

• It teaches young girls their needs are less important
• It reinforces the idea that women should always put others first
• It creates workplace disadvantages – women who apologize too much appear less confident

It leads to burnout – trying to do everything perfectly to avoid “inconveniencing” anyone

How to Change the Pattern?

Ready to break free from unnecessary apologies? Here’s where we start:

1. Notice Your Automatic “Sorry”s

Start paying attention to how often you apologize unnecessarily. Try replacing some with:

• “Excuse me” instead of “Sorry” when moving past someone
• “Thank you for waiting” instead of “Sorry I’m late”

Silence instead of apologizing for your opinions

2. Challenge the Guilt

When you feel guilty for:

• Working late
• Saying no
• Taking time for yourself

Ask: “Would a man feel bad about this?” If the answer is no, let the guilt go.

3. Redefine Strength

Strength isn’t just about bearing burdens silently. Real strength is:

• Setting boundaries without apology
• Owning your achievements proudly
• Demanding equal treatment at home and work

4. Support Other Women

When you hear another woman:

• Downplaying her success (“It’s nothing special…”)
• Apologizing unnecessarily

Gently point it out: “You don’t need to say sorry for that!”

A New Normal for Pakistani Women

Imagine a Pakistan where:

• Girls grow up believing they deserve space, success, and happiness
• Women’s ambitions are celebrated as much as their sacrifices
• “No” is a complete sentence that doesn’t require explanation

Homes and workplaces share responsibilities equally

This change starts with each of us by noticing our unnecessary apologies, by challenging unfair expectations, and most importantly, by teaching the next generation that being a woman is not something that requires constant apology.

So the next time you’re about to say “sorry,” pause and ask yourself:

Am I actually wrong? If not, take a deep breath, and let that apology go. You exist. You matter. And that’s nothing to be sorry about.

Seventeen-year-old TikTok star Sana Yousaf, whose videos and vibrant personality had captured the hearts of millions across Pakistan, was shot dead in Islamabad this week simply because she rejected the advances of a man who refused to take no for an answer.

Her tragic murder has sparked a wave of anger and grief across the country, reigniting urgent conversations about violence against women, misogyny, and the dangers of online visibility for Pakistani girls and women.

Who Was Sana Yousaf?

Sana Yousaf was a beloved social media influencer originally from Chitral. She had over 1.1 million followers on TikTok and a growing fan base on Instagram.

Her videos, often simple lip-syncs and light-hearted moments, resonated with young audiences across Pakistan. Her final TikTok post a joyful montage celebrating her birthday with friends now stands as a haunting memory of a life so full of promise.

She was laid to rest in her ancestral graveyard in Chuinj village, Chitral, on Tuesday.

What Happened to Sana?

The horrifying attack took place on Monday, June 2, in Islamabad. According to police reports and media sources, Umar Hayat had been harassing Sana for months, persistently pursuing her for “friendship.” She had repeatedly rejected him. His obsession escalated, and on that fateful day, he forcibly entered her residence with a gun.

Witnesses say an argument broke out. In a fit of rage, Umar shot Sana twice in the chest. She succumbed to her injuries on the spot. Her body was later shifted to PIMS Hospital, where a post-mortem was conducted. After completing the legal formalities, her body was handed over to her devastated family.

The Last Words of a Young Girl

New details about Sana’s final moments, reported by ARY News, have left the public heartbroken. Moments before she was killed, Sana reportedly tried to calm her stalker 22-year-old Umar Hayat, also known as Kaka and asked him to leave:

You’re getting agitated, leave this place. There are CCTV cameras, please depart.

But her plea went unheard. Moments later, two gunshots rang out. Sana was shot outside her own home and died on the spot, her life cut short in a senseless act of violence.

A Swift Police Response

In a rare instance of swift action, the Islamabad Police moved quickly to apprehend the suspect. Within 20 hours, Umar Hayat was arrested during a raid in Faisalabad. Federal Interior Minister Mohsin Naqvi publicly praised the quick response, posting on X:

Well done Islamabad Police. Sana Yousuf murder case solved, accused arrested, and weapon recovered within 20 hours.

During a detailed press briefing, Inspector General of Police (IGP) Islamabad, Syed Ali Nasir Rizvi, revealed:

“The Sana Yousuf case has sent shockwaves through Islamabad and across the country.”

He further shared that:

• 7 investigation teams were formed
• 37 individuals were questioned
• 11 raids were carried out in Islamabad and Faisalabad
• The murder weapon and Sana’s iPhone were recovered from the suspect’s possession

IGP Rizvi confirmed that Umar was a matric-pass youth who had made multiple attempts to contact Sana. After she continuously rejected him, he allegedly resorted to murder.

Pakistan Reacts: Outrage and Grief

The murder has triggered a wave of public outrage and demands for justice.

The National Commission on the Status of Women (NCSW) released a strong statement:

We will not let this case be buried under social stigma, false narratives of honour, or procedural loopholes. This senseless killing highlights the vulnerability of women and girls, even in their own homes. We demand justice for Sana and her family, and expect the state to ensure accountability of the perpetrators.

Aurat March, the country’s leading feminist movement, also condemned the killing:

We, the Aurat March chapters across the country, demand justice for Sana a 17-year-old girl and TikToker who tragically lost her life to patriarchal violence.

 

Patriarchy feels most threatened when women & gender minorities claim voice and visibility in public by challenging the stand pat norms. In response, it turns to violence the ultimate tool to silence, control, and erase.

 

This is exactly what happened to Sana who was killed inside her own home by a violent man who couldn’t take no for an answer. This wasn’t a random hit, this was a planned attack where a minor girl’s privacy and home were invaded by a man who thought he would get away with it.

Leading actress Mahira Khan echoed the public sentiment, posting on Instagram:

“Disgusted to the core.”

A Pattern of Violence That Cannot Be Ignored

Sana Yousaf’s murder is not an isolated case. In recent years, young women with an online presence have increasingly become targets of violence in Pakistan.

Nighat Dad, executive director of the Digital Rights Foundation, explained the dangerous pattern:

Sana Yousaf’s murder is part of a horrifying, ongoing pattern of violence against women in Pakistan, especially those who dare to exist with autonomy. These are not isolated incidents. What connects them is a culture where women are punished for visibility, independence, and saying no. At the heart of this pattern is fragile masculinity and deeply rooted misogyny. When young women assert boundaries or say no to romantic or sexual advances, it bruises the male ego, especially in a society that teaches men entitlement over women’s bodies and choices. This entitlement, when left unchecked by law, culture, and platforms, turns deadly.

Other Cases That Mirror This Tragedy

Pakistan has seen a disturbing rise in similar cases:

• In January 2025, Hira Anwar (14) was murdered by her own father in Quetta after he found her TikTok videos “objectionable.”
• In October 2024, a man in Karachi killed four female relatives, aged 12 to 60, in a gruesome attack.
• In 2022, Pakistani-American Sania Khan (29) was shot and killed by her ex-husband in Chicago after posting about her divorce on TikTok.
• The 2016 murder of Qandeel Baloch (26) — one of Pakistan’s most well-known online personalities — remains one of the most infamous “honour killings” in the country.
• In 2021, Noor Mukadam was brutally murdered in Islamabad. Her killer was recently sentenced to death after an intense public campaign for justice.

The Statistics Paint a Grim Picture

According to the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan (HRCP), at least 346 women were killed in the name of “honour” in 2024 a rise from 324 in 2023. But these figures likely don’t include cases like Sana’s, where the perpetrator was not a family member, but rather a man whose advances were rejected.

Nighat Dad warned:

We need systemic change. The state must treat online misogyny and gender-based violence as connected threats and not separate issues. When a woman says no, and a man responds with violence, that’s not heartbreak, it’s abuse.

A National Reckoning

Sana Yousaf’s murder has become a national moment of reckoning. A bright, young life was stolen simply because she dared to say no a chilling reminder of the everyday risks faced by Pakistani women and girls who choose to live, speak, and exist on their own terms.

The public is watching closely. Justice must be swift and uncompromising not just for Sana, but for every woman in Pakistan who faces the same dangers.

Nearly four years after a crime that horrified the nation, the Supreme Court of Pakistan upheld the death sentence of Zahir Jaffer for her brutal murder.

The ruling is significant for three reasons: 

• It affirms that the Pakistani justice system can deliver in the face of overwhelming public outrage
• It sends a message that no privilege or wealth can shield one from the law
• It strengthens hope for victims of gender-based violence seeking justice in a patriarchal society.

Noor, 27, was found tortured and beheaded at Zahir’s Islamabad home in July 2021. The sheer brutality of the crime sparked protests and soul-searching across the country. After years of legal battles, the apex court dismissed Zahir’s appeal, confirming his death sentence under Section 302(b) of the Pakistan Penal Code (PPC) for premeditated murder. The verdict comes after it was upheld by both the trial court and the Islamabad High Court (IHC).

However, the top court modified parts of the previous ruling. Zahir’s death sentence for rape under Section 376, originally converted from 25 years rigorous imprisonment by the IHC, was reduced to life imprisonment. His 10-year sentence for kidnapping was also slashed to one year.

The court also ruled on the appeals of Zahir’s co-accused, the household staff who had allegedly prevented Noor from escaping. Watchman Mohammad Iftikhar and gardener Jan Mohammad, both sentenced to 10 years, had their sentences reduced. The bench decided that their time already served was sufficient, leading to their release.

Throughout the proceedings, disturbing commentary and courtroom dynamics revealed the ongoing struggle women face in seeking justice. During the trial, judges questioned Noor’s decision to be alone with Jaffer. Justice Kakar remarked that such actions were “against our values,” drawing criticism from activists.

Farzana Bari, a prominent women’s rights advocate, noted that these remarks reflect a dangerous mindset: “They imply the man had some right over her, which is a harmful and regressive notion.”

Shafaq Zaidi, Noor’s childhood friend, stood outside the court with tears in her eyes. “This is a victory for all the women of Pakistan. It shows that justice is possible. This was our last resort, and it’s hard to put into words what this outcome means to us.”

Human rights activist Tahira Abdullah echoed the sentiment, calling the verdict “a milestone achievement in the ongoing struggle for justice against entrenched patriarchy, sexism, and misogyny.”

The murder, which occurred on July 20, 2021, in Islamabad’s upscale Sector F-7/4, was described in the FIR filed by Noor’s father, Shaukat Mukadam, as a gruesome crime involving torture and beheading. Zahir was arrested at the scene.

Later, Zahir’s parents, Zakir Jaffer and Asmat Adamji, were indicted but later acquitted. Therapy Works employees, who arrived before the police, were also released despite being accused of attempting to tamper with evidence.

The apex court is yet to issue a short order detailing its decision on Shaukat Mukadam’s appeal against Zakir Jaffer’s acquittal.

During the trial, Zahir’s defense argued that his mental state was not assessed by a medical board. However, the court dismissed this, stating that the evidence of his confession, DNA, and fingerprints were overwhelming.

Zahir’s counsel, Salman Safdar, maintained that the footage presented was not played in court and argued that the evidence must be beyond doubt. The state lawyer, in contrast, called for exemplary punishment: “There should be no forgiveness for this heinous crime.”

Justice Najafi pointedly remarked that had the co-accused not stopped Noor, “the situation would have been different.”

For Noor’s father, who had urged the Supreme Court last year to take up the delayed appeal, the decision marks the end of a long and painful journey. “My daughter was brutally murdered. We fought every day to ensure her voice wasn’t lost.”

As the court announced its verdict, the mood was heavy. It was not a moment of celebration, but of solemn closure. Justice had taken its course, and for Noor Mukadam, the hope is that her story becomes a turning point  not just for Pakistan’s justice system, but for how society views and protects its daughters.

Perhaps now, with this ruling, fewer parents will have to suffer in silence. Perhaps now, justice will not feel like an impossible dream.

• Marriage apps create a distorted view of relationships by prioritizing surface-level attraction over real-world compatibility.

• Common red flags like ghosting, love-bombing, and inconsistent communication contribute to psychological strain and emotional exhaustion.

• The superficial nature of these platforms can lead to low self-esteem, loneliness, and unhealthy relationship choices, especially for women.

In the digital age, marriage apps have revolutionized the way people meet potential life partners. But while these platforms promise convenience and the hope of finding the perfect match, they come with unintended consequences, especially for women. Beneath the surface of these apps lies a complicated web of expectations, disappointment, and psychological strain.

Surface vs Reality: The Idealized Version of Love

Marriage apps often paint a glossy picture of love and compatibility, where users can filter and choose their ideal partner with ease. The profiles presented on these platforms are curated, with users showcasing their best selves—highlighting their achievements, physical attributes, and interests. But this curated version of a person often diverges drastically from reality. The discrepancy between an idealized online profile and the real-life individual can be shocking and disheartening.

For women, this disparity can lead to self-doubt and frustration. The pressure to live up to the digital ideal of perfection often takes a toll on their mental health. Women might feel inadequate or as though they have to constantly strive to meet unrealistic standards, which can result in feelings of insecurity, anxiety, and lowered self-esteem.

What’s Really Happening Behind the Screens?

Despite the convenience of these platforms, what’s really happening behind the screens often doesn’t align with the promises made by the apps. Many users report superficial interactions with minimal meaningful connection. The process of swiping, matching, and chatting can feel more like a game than a serious attempt to form a lasting relationship.

Moreover, women on these platforms often face an overwhelming number of unsolicited messages, many of which are inappropriate or disrespectful. This can lead to a sense of being objectified rather than seen as an equal, causing emotional exhaustion. The lack of real-world context in these virtual interactions means that trust and genuine connection are often hard to build.

Common Red Flags to Look Out For

Marriage apps, unfortunately, can be breeding grounds for unhealthy relationship dynamics. Some common red flags women should be aware of include:

• Love-bombing: Over-the-top flattery and excessive attention early on that may seem flattering but can turn manipulative.

• Ghosting: Sudden disappearance after a few meaningful exchanges or dates, leaving women questioning their worth.

• Inconsistent Communication: A partner who fluctuates between intense interest and distant behavior, which can create emotional turmoil.

These behaviors can be emotionally draining, leading women to question their value and the authenticity of the people they connect with. Over time, these experiences erode self-confidence and contribute to a growing sense of isolation.

What It Leads To: Psychological Strain

The mental health implications of using marriage apps are not to be underestimated. Constant exposure to fleeting, superficial interactions can leave women feeling emotionally exhausted and frustrated. They may also develop a distorted view of relationships, where quick fixes or superficial connections are seen as normal.

Over time, this can lead to feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression. The cycle of rejection, ghosting, or failed connections can reinforce negative thought patterns, making it difficult for women to trust others or even believe in the possibility of a healthy, long-term relationship.

Moreover, the intense focus on appearance and initial impressions rather than deep emotional compatibility can lead to poor relationship choices. Women may settle for relationships that don’t align with their values or needs, which could have long-term emotional consequences.

Conclusion: The Call for Mindful Use

While marriage apps offer a modern way to meet potential partners, they come with their own set of challenges, particularly for women. It’s essential to use these platforms mindfully and to prioritize emotional well-being over the superficial aspects of digital matchmaking. By being aware of the psychological risks and focusing on genuine, meaningful connections, women can navigate the marriage app landscape with greater awareness and resilience.

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